When I first became disabled, I watched my friendships change, many of them dramatically. I found out people I always thought would always be there for me, disappeared. I found myself extremely hurt, and the whole experience shook my faith in my ability to pick trustworthy friends. However, some people I became closer to, unexpectedly, and this lady was one of them.
It has been a few days since she has arrived, and it has been wonderful getting to talk about everything under the sun. I abhor the telephone, and I can never seem to say everything I want in an email. Sometimes, you just need that face to face contact. I love getting to bury my face in her 5 month old son's neck, and cuddle him. My daughter enjoys making him giggle, and helping out with his needs, but she becomes jealous if I show him too much attention. I've enjoyed planning meals, and cooking, for my friend actually enjoys what I prepare to eat (and is not as picky as my husband and daughter!). I am tired, because I am overexerting myself, but I can not help it. I like making sure someone is comfortable in my home, and for once- she needs me.
I have always believed in the concept of having a family of choice. I did not come from a close-knit family, and I am often misunderstood by those I am related to. I know I am loved, but if I had to rely solely on them for emotional support, I would be very lonely indeed. We are just very different- and I am honestly okay with that, now. One of the wonderful things about growing up, was choosing who I would let into my life, and how much contact I would have with them. I am fortunate enough that I have managed to form some close friendships with a few people. There is nothing like knowing that someone truly loves, embraces, and accepts you for who you are.
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